Hey there, you can probly tell im new to this forum, ive had some success the other day and managed to fclose this girl, now ive got a date with her on monday (tomorow) and im wondering how i should treat the situation, should i continue to DHV, IOI, IOD her or should i start just acting like myself in hopes that it might potentially go somewhere?

any suggestions anyone...?

I'm interested in this topic too. I recently had my first lay (not ever) from being in the community and I don't know how to handle things from here. What happened on your followup date?

I'm in the exact same situation, except when i asked her out she already had plans so i gotta call her another time

same here i wanna friend with benifits from mine.

am trying to bring into my world saying what im up to with a casual hey you should come along will be fun.

will let tou know if it works

hey guys i just discovered this old thread i made.. just gonna bring you up to speed on how i managed to get friends with benefits status with her (been going on for about 3 months now)

Dont let her stay over! after you are done call a cab for her ... you dont want her thinking that you get emotionally attached after having sex.

Start to become hard to reach after... However not unreachable. Schedule a non sexual date to begin building some emotions *only on her part* stay emotionally unattached

Give her the impression taht you are a guy that is not expected to have just one girl in his life

Go out a lot and if she texts you that night let her know you are going to the bars but do not invite her. Instead suggest something at a later date

Get in the regular routine of calling her to hang out on fridays Maintain strong sexual tension between the two of you. During sex just be wild with her you want her ot know that you guys are fucking and not making love

During the beginning pphases we hung out about 2 times a week now i call her up on a friday or watever and she knows whats up... remember its just as/more pleasurable for the girl... never let people know shes your friends with benefits or else her anti slut defense will kick in hard and you will lose the girl

happy gaming guys

I was about to say bro, you have to be only one person to her. Who she saw that first night you must continue to be, otherwise you start fucking with her mind and she'll get weirded out and feel threatened. But good job man, more power to you. Alot of people dont know how or can't keep a FWB's relationship...