Met a girl in a club, she looks my age, but happens to be 7 years older than me (30).
We have met up twice, and there was quite a bit of kino involved and she has been showing interest, however we haven't kissed or anything, partly because I had a bit of a cold.
She considers me to be a bit of a player, and she often jokes about it, and said she wouldn't be in a serious relationship with a playboy. However I just want a casual relationship, and as we haven't even kissed or anything after the 3rd time we have met, I'm wondering whether it can only move towards LJBF.
I am meeting her tomorrow night, what should I do?

Nothing if you want to be friends. Otherwise, kino escalate until she tells you to stop. That way you make sure her needs are met. You are going to have to increase the attraction or you're going to be a friend pretty quick.

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Just dive in man, look in her eyes, make sure it's all good and go in for the kiss.

You got 2 possible outcomes.

1. You kiss her and she goes for you.
2. You kiss her and she's not happy/exact same as you doing nothing and LJBF.

"we haven't even kissed or anything after the 3rd time we have met"

WE HAVEN'T ! ! ! that's your problem right there buddy, it should be I HAVE TRIED AND HAVEN"T BEEN ABLE TO...

Don't expect girls (even older than you) to do anything. You have to approach it as if you're working alone at it and her job is to try to stop you... you do 100% of the work and then they can't turn you down... go ahead dive in...