Last Thursday she flakes on another f-fest by claiming that her best friend and her bf broke up, and she needs to comfort her.
"Next time then"
She tells me that she's free Sunday, and I agree.
I get a text Sunday morning: "I'm sick! Drunk way too much last night - have a head cold now".
I roll my eyes and ask straight up if she's still up for tonight, and she says "well I dont want to get you sick".
You: Cool, I don't want your germs, either, lol.
I've ignored her the rest of the day.
Ignoring her makes it look like you're mad you didn't get laid. Guys who get laid don't get mad about not getting laid.
She sends me texts:
" Hope work is good today! xoxo"
"Hey lovely, just wanted to apologize for how flakey i've been lately. New job and everything has run me down. I hope to see you as soon as i'm feeling better. Thinking about you! xoxo Goodnight!"
I ignored this as well. I've already nexted her in my mind.
lol. Why? You're acting like this is a serious relationship. She's just a hook up right now. Chill out.
You: Hey, thanks. I'm looking forward to next time as well.
Which responses convey chill indifference and a man who has options: your cold, angry silence, or the casual replies?