| Hi,
Just to let you know the scenario:
1. In september saw a nice girl on Facebook so I texted her. At first she was somehow rejecting me ("Do you know me?" "I dont talk to people I dont know" etc). I told her she is nice and I would like to know her. She continued the same way for 1-2 minutes so I told her "Ok sorry for disturbing you". After 15 minutes she got back to me and told me "So what were you saying" or something similar and we started chatting(sometime flirting and all gone well). We chatted from time to time (once a week , maybe just one time in October because she was not in town so I knew I wont obtain nothing if I chat to her on Facebook).
2. When she came back I saw she organised a movie afternoon event at her university, so I got one friend and went directly there. When she saw me she turned red, she smiled and got me to two free seats. After the movie I said her goodbye because she was discussing with some people, probably regarding the event. She told me "You surprised me". Then when she got home she texted me " I couldnt belive you were there, I took the list of people who checked in to see it was really you, you surprised me". (P.S. I know that it was a little mistake that I didnt talk to her more before I left).
I asked her for a date but she was not in town so she told me the we can go another time.
3. Today I went with her on a first date, things gone very well, we found a lot of things we have in common and all was very good (smiles etc, a little kino) but I feel like I could have done more romantic/flirting conversations. I was a little afraid not to push her because she is very young (20 years, yet pretty open-minded and social and like you will see I think she isnt very experienced with boys). I paid and because she really insisted to split I told her "you'll pay next time" and she told me "Ok, I will take you to a great place".
I took her back to her place and we agreed that I can take a look at a tablet of her (I am a Software engineer so that's why we got to this). She first wanted to go inside and bring me the tablet but then she asked "Do you want to come inside" so I said ok. Went inside, got the tablet, then she asked if I want a tea and I said "no, thanks, I will leave now, I have something to do".
Here is my biggest regret regarding this date. I felt like maybe she wanted a kiss, but I wasn't 100% sure she would accept and I really didn't want an awkward moment after the good date. I thought we didnt really made a good romantic connection yet, and like I said she is very young and I think she didnt had many relationships before(another mistake that I didnt bring that into the date conversation, I forgot as we were pretty captivated by the other things we discussed) so I said to myself just keep it cool, she's pretty interested and on the next date we can get there.
One more thing about the date... She was pretty busy today so she told me yesterday that she'll come but she can stay only one hour because something appeared in her schedule. So this was sth like a flash date and I also took this into consideration when I decided not to push her yet, and I can continue in the next date.
Questions.
1. What I have done wrong ?
2. Some advice about how the next date should happen? (It will be after one week because tomorrow she's leaving for something regarding the university - she's very conscientious, has high grades and looks like she's not the girl that goes at all the parties etc, you know what I mean).
3. How should I behave during this period before the second date ? What to text her/call and talk about ?
I want a relationship with her so I'm not in just for some fun.
Thanks and sorry for such a long description, I just wanted you to understand better the situation.
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