i have no idea where to begin

ive been goin out with this HB8 for about a month and i cant f-close for some reason. this weekend she had two small parties, one friday and the other on saturday, it was brutal.

this is beside the point but something i have noticed was that all the guys and all the girls were seperated most of the time, where the guys were in the basement playing drinking games and the girls were upstairs watching tv.

basically, this seperation made it hard for me to talk to her, so we barely talked to each other at all, and when we did eventually, it was a little bit of arguing over drinking and driving, however we made it up by talkin to each other over the phone both mornings.

it felt like a complete mess

i have no idea what to do, i want to go further but im stuck on something

any advice on this would be much appreciated

thanks
big'O'

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Vic Vega

You can't f close a girl you spend time away from. However, it sounds like you need to escalate the kino. Keep building comfort with more kino that moves from light to playfully sexual. Once it is sort of sexual always be the one to break it and rejoin your friends. She will chase you then

Also, next time you have a party split up into groups like the one you described, bring the two separated groups together... you're a leader of men. That was a great chance to bring your value above everyone else at the party, which translates to having more options.