Gents,

There is this cute girl who works at a Juice Bar at Whole Foods. She has two coworkers and they all remain in a small working space. I opened indirectly after she gave me good eye contact from a distance; she seemed very open to me and I like her attitude from what I saw. I am thinking of trying to get her number after seeing her two or three times.

What is a good way to go for the digits without making her feel like a slut in front of her coworkers? Should I invite her to a group event or can I be more direct about it? Thanks, men.

-Nice Guy

You can do either. You know more about this person that we do from interacting with her. What do you think she is more likely to agree to?

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JSmooth,

Thanks for the reply. I much rather prefer to be direct with women; but, social calibration is important when one is in public. I think that she would be okay with both; but, a group meetup will probably be less awkward for her since she seems a bit extroverted. Furthermore, I've talked to a certain bouncer who is a player in my city. He told me how girls open up to a more indirect style (not necessarily including opinion openers, but where one on occasionally expresses intent verbally). I think this is true; when I daygame, a lot of girls act like they've never been approached by a man in the daytime and get all flustered. Maybe that is the case in this town; I don't know. It might be wise if I see what her interests are and determine if I can make a group meetup. Then, I can go for a one-on-one date or actually call up some friends if I want to. Let me know what you think.


-Nice Guy