Hey guys this is my first post any advice would be great.
so last sat went out to a bar i was super cofident and opening every set around (to the amusemnt of my AFC friends) i met this 3 set hb9 and 2 hb7s was talking to hb9 and she had her bitch shield up so i told her she was being rude. Then i ignored her and spoke too the other 2 they were both showing heaps of IOIs and kinoing. I then went back to the HB9 and kissed her, then did almost and instant venue change too the beach so i had her isolated(she was super into me at this point). Rolled around in the sand for a while getting super heated while making out(could have fclosed in retrospect). I then told her i dont want to fuck tonight(im weird like that i thought it was funny). We layed there for a while (i think i fell asleep) then i put her in a cab because she had work the next day and couldnt stay at mine. Reopend text convo the arvo with;
loki-hey sexy; its loki. Do we still have plans for later this week??:)
hb9-heey yeaah we sure do i didnt get you last name?
Loki- (last name) if your trying to look me up on fb i dont have it.
-do you always go home so early?;)
hb9-it wasnt that early wass it?
Hb9-hahah what time did i leave?
-i think it was like 12.
- what should we do, hang out at my place or go for a drink?
Hb9-ahh i didnt realise the time, i thought it was much later yeah lets go for a drink.
Loki-cool, where should we go??
Hb9-how do you feel about (place we met)??
Loki-sounds good.
Loki-are you working tommorow?
Hb9-yeah i am but any other day im free.
Loki-no good:( tommorws my only free day. (it isint)
loki-maybe this weekend?
Hb9-ah okaay this weekend is fine:). That were im at currently, any advice or pointers would be much apreciated. Should i try for an earlier night or wait till the weekend? I think im over thinking this one a bit to much. I would prefer if she just can to me instead of going all the way out to then only come back to mine later. Im thinking of trying to make this one a fuck buddy if i get along with here well on the day2.
Thanks heaps in advance. Ps. Sorry about hte layout i did this on my phone.

Next time, don't ask the girl where she wants to go. It's your job as the man to decide on the venue for the first date. Stop worrying about her opinion.

Be a man. Lead.

Agree with Hunter_Foxe - always lead with where to go/what to do. "I know this awesome bar blabla lets go have a drink".

Also, you've only met this girl once, despite having a good first night you need to take her out on a drink or two before suggesting chilling at yours, she doesnt want to feel like a slut!

She clearly likes you dont overthink it you got it in the bag.

Not true. You just need a reason for her to come over. Watching a movie is always a good reason.

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