So I've had this question lingering in my head.

Has anyone ever brought out toys during a close? Girls typically want to feel special, in a way, so I would almost think that having an under-the-bed tie down system, or some other fetish gear could turn into a turn off. i.e. "you used that on someone else?"

But at the same time, they want excitement, and they love that shit within reason.

I don't always have to have the tie-downs, restraint, ropes, whips, etc; but I am into it a lot. I can do without, but I'd love to continue with whoever I bring home, within reason.

Any advice?

Ahead of time, I already know what some of you are thinking. "What the fuck?" I am who I am and I have things I'd like to continue with any willing partner. It's about submission, not force.

Thanks in advance!