I usually get this far into dating and don't know where to go. I should add, as most of the girls I've been dating live far away from me, we meet in a location in which it is logistically impossible to spend the night together. The only hope of me doing this, is inviting them to come and see me at uni. I have been on 2 dates with the HB9, the first one I puked outside, but still k-closed, and we kissed several times on the second date, and I put my arm round her and she copied me as I walked her back to the pub she was meeting her sister at.

I thought she was somewhat keen to leave but it turns out she had left her sister with a friend they didn't know very well and felt guilty for ditching her for so long, so suggested we cut the date short and I phone my friends and see where they are. My friends had gone to a party, so met some other people in town, but she texted me the next day to ask if I managed to meet them.

I am currently dating a HB9 and HB7. The 7 is up for coming and staying with me at some point however it appears the HB9 is not. I say this due to the fact I suggested that she comes and stays for me and can be my cook while I revise for exams, she said "more like the other way round." I said "How about my Italian friend cooks for US?" and she said "That sounds more like it..."

How shall I proceed with the HB9?

I'm considering telling her I'm having a really busy few weeks due to exams but next week we should do a trip to Brighton at the weekend?

This is about an hour away from us. What do you think?