Hey guys

This is something that happens to me for the first time!!
I met this girl saturday night in a club!!

We started dancing with lots of contact.
Then I asked her if she wants to have a talk so we moved on a couch.
There was lots of kino there and talking, at some point she was resting her head on my shoulder.
Near the end I asked her if she wanted to kiss me and she said maybe, so I moved in for the kiss but then she moved away. I told her this is not a maybe, this is a no and she replied that there were some family members in front of us. ( By family she meant the people that she was working for because she is a nanny)
We exchanged numbers actually she texted me cos my phone was switched off and she left.

What went wrong was during phone game, and its a part of my game that I feel is very week.

I texted her the day after and then we exchanged 8-9 texts each and on my last message I asked if she could talk on the phone but she never replied. I sent that message around 22:30.

second day I texted her at she replied back after 3:30 hours to tell me that she was shopping. then I texted back after a while and in my message I asked if she wanted to talk and she didnt reply.

third day (today) I sent her a text saying, goodmorning beautiful!! how was your yesterdays shopping?

she replied Goodmorning shopping is always good :p how are you??

my reply: Yeap, I know what you mean I am good enjoying my last day of holiday.


She never got back.

She is from another country, and she is leaving in a month according to what she told me.

what do you guys think?

thanks for your time!!!

Here's a few things I can see that you could improve upon:
Why would you text her asking if you could call her instead of just calling her? Jump from A to C without stopping at B... Asking her if you can call is redundant and gives her time to say no (or completely ignore you, like she did).

This is pretty boring and not very engaging. Would you reply to a girl who wrote this to you, if you had 10 other girls writing you with better, more witty or funny messages?

Boring again... You need to be wittier, more to the point. Make her laugh and stir up emotions. You're also going to want to get sexual with your texts soon... and get her out soon as well - if you can manage it and she'll still come around (you're losing her fast, I think)...

I know my phone game is very bad and I need to Improve a lot.
Usually I am better face to face.
Any good suggestions on reading something?

I ll text her this afternoon after work and once she replies I ll call her,

What would you suggest is a good way of getting back to her?

Text her and get straight to the point.

"hey, I know your leaving soon so lets meet up. You free tonight?"

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