Took some time freezing this girl out. Had a thing going with her a couple months ago where she was showing interest here and there and we messed around- but I went from alpha to afc. I froze her out for over a month (didn’t want to end up in friend zone) and finally saw her again the past 4 days on a trip with mutual friends. Our first interaction started with her shit testing me like crazy, and treating me like she was the prize- but I quickly pulled it together and put her in her place- the next few nights her attitude completely changed. Her shit testing went from 90% to 5% and we started messing around a bit. We mess around in bed and then act like nothing happened afterwards.

My obvious goal is to have sex with her but I’m trying to understand where I am and what I should do so that I don’t pull some AFC shit again. As of right now, my goal is to not give a fuck. If I see her, then ill try, if not then whatever.

Before (when i was going AFC)- she would stop me from messing around with her because she sensed that I was being outcome dependent- after freezing out I came back completely different, with a mentality of having fun and it seemed like it worked as she didn’t stop me from doing anything. The main problem I am running into right now, is that she will let me finger her and play with her tits but I get nothing in return besides blue balls. Also- she never initiates (I’m thinking its because she feels guilty for messing around with her best friend’s ex behind her back) but then again if that was the case then she would stop me right?

what is the best way to F-close here? Do i need to build more attraction?

You're messing around in bed. Pull your dick out. Grab a condom and put it on. Insert condom covered penis into vagina.

Seriously. In the bedroom, just rip clothes off and don't stop until she says no. When she does...STOPPPPP!!!!!!

If she does anything to make you feel turned on, pushing her ass up against you, squeezing you tightly, kissing your neck, ANYTHING OF THE SORT, continue where you last left off.

Honestly, when a girl is in bed with me, shit's going down. If she wants to stop, fine. Lets go to sleep then and stop all this shit. They NEVER can stop. By then I've got them too riled up.

Now I'm going to be honest and say that I give it a decent amount of persistence. I see they're acting hesitant and while I'm playing cool I'm still doing things to rile them up. And right when I'm at the cusp of giving them a near orgasm through tease, I say...okay well then let's just stop this altogether. I do not put clothes on.

When she goes at it again I am already naked, she is naked or close to it, and I reach for the condoms. Seriously, half of LMR is "DO YOU USE CONDOMS." That's basically it. Don't by into her bullshit believing that she really doesn't want to do it. She does.

I've also legit had girls be like "are we going to hang out after this..." and if they get that way, for my sake, I don't fuck them. That question right there means she's trying to trap me into shit. They really hardly ever do that anymore because I pretty much lay it out beforehand that I am just a whore and hookups are meaningful in a way but meaningless in another.

Really though, just be a man and pull your fucking dick out. Pull out your throbbing hard shlong and place it on her lap like a fucking gift, and point it at her eyes as to hypnotize her with your one-eyed monster. Seeking cock is hypnotic. They're offended by it but at the same time they want to fuck it. It's a paradox. But few women, especially women who aren't sure if they want to fuck you, will take your dick out for you.

Many women wont make the first move below the pants after you've already fucked them. Many women won't suck dick unless you put it in their face first. Me a man about it. Make the move. As gunwitch would say, "Make the hoe say no."

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