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Hooked up once? Your goal is to make her your girlfriend?
Dude, how experienced are you in having sex with girls?
My impression based on what you wrote is that you're thinking something along these lines:
"OMG I finally had sex with a pretty hot girl! I got so lucky! It's probably gonna be a really long time until I get the chance to have sex with anyone else this attractive, so I should try to get into a relationship with her to ensure that I can have more sex!"
If that's where you are right now, snap out of it, bro.
Have faith in the process of progress. Keep working on your skills instead of worrying about keeping any one girl around. There will be more girls. PLENTY. As long as you keep at it your results can come exponentially. Don't lock yourself into any one option out of scarcity. Abundance mentality.
I feel the same as sheikh, If I have sex with a decent girl really drunk, I really don't care about my performance. But if she is really hot, I make sure I know what I'm doing to ensure I am doing a good job in bed. If she is decent but have many hot friends, I also do my best, and I never have sex if I'm way too drunk.
I live in a low populated place, so how rumors spread, that is why=D