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| kamil0810 | PostPosted: Tue Sep 30, 2014 1:47 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Sep 06, 2014 6:44 pm Posts: 1 | | Hey guys
The field report :
I met a guy at the party ( demonstrated really high value of my person), kiss-closed, then a bit sexual sms's and 2nd meeting in the night for a drink.
She came alone, we met up in the bar. I got her a drink. She stayed really long on her phone so I pointed out as a bad behaviour, then I tried to build up comfort ( using good questions rising emotions etc), starting to show her photos of the events i Participated. She started joking that she has a date after mine with another guy.
i did KINO ; hand ( she was ok), I grabbed her back ( she said: what are you doing man?), then I tried to kiss her ( TOTAL FAILURE) She told me that she has to go and left. Then I called her, she picked up the call and told me she is already home and that I am an asshole .
What were my mistakes?
Anyone can analyse it?
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| JackZero | PostPosted: Tue Sep 30, 2014 2:23 am | |
| Offline | | The Grand Puba |  | Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm Posts: 5962 Location: Los Angeles | | Too vague of a description, but if I were to guess...she let you know that she wasn't comfortable with your escalation and it was a turn off to her. So any kiss wasn't going to happen again until you rebuilt comfort with her.
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| CharlesFinley | PostPosted: Tue Sep 30, 2014 12:44 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:17 pm Posts: 3427 Location: Toronto, Canada | | Wow, that's pretty bad, dude.
Condolences - LOL
Jack-Zero's right - who knows what that could be, based on the detail.
You mis-read something though... Probably her responses to your escalation (she meant 'no' but you kept going)...
If you like her, apologize and say you get nervous on dates... and you're sorry...
Or - what I'd do, find another girl who isn't to objecting to a hand on the back.
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| JJoj | PostPosted: Mon Oct 13, 2014 9:57 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Dec 03, 2012 8:20 am Posts: 138 | | Umm... I had a chick treat me similarly to how you are describing the way you treated that chick, She made me late AND didn't close like I wanted, and then my other date simply took off for the night. So yeah, I was pretty upset about it.
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