I haven't spoken much to this girl I sarged in Florida a month ago, and have kinda ignored her recently. I'm meeting her again in LA in about 2 months time, when I can really pick my game up on her, now that I figured out what it is.

The question is, Facebook tells me her birthday is tomorrow. Now, I haven't spoken to her in about 3 weeks. I called her, got a voicemail, never got a return phone call. Let it be, because there are others. But since I want to keep it going til i can see her again in LA, should I send her a birthday wish via Facebook, Text Message, or phone?

FYI, I do believe she is on a cruise right now, so i'm guessing cell service may be a little out of reach. Would I even say the AFC thing like happy birthday? What would a PUA say?

Im not entirely sure but I had the same decision recently

I decided to not bother texting "happy birthday"

Instead I just said it to her the next day when meeting up with her. Turned out very well. IMO texting/calling etc to say happy birthday gives them too much value, but that is just my opinion.

I kinda think that too. If i constantly try and get her attention, then i'm just increasing her ego. After watching a juggler video, he made the key point of effort=reward.

I haven't seen any effort on her end since I had to fly back home, so no reward.

Thanks for securing what I've felt.