Just wondering what community thinks the best way is?
When/how/where to ask etc...

Been in a relationship for two years and just getting back into the game. Been on a few dates that went relatively well ...kino...making out... etc.

But I seem to screw things up when asking the girl to come back. Maybe I'm just rusty. I can't remember what I used to do. It seemed just natural before that I didn't even have to really think about it. But I guess now I do. Don't want to mess up next date.

Make her horny and then...

Qualify --> Accept

It goes like this. So you make out. Intensify your kino to her erotic parts as much as you can. Next, say something like, "I'm hungry. Can you cook [whatever]?"

Girl: Yes. / No.
You: Good. Let's get something to eat at my fridge.

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Sometime after the first kiss, do another good one to get her horny (pull away while she is still lusting for more). Then bring up "what kind of movies do you have at your place?"
Stop by Whole Foods to pick up a steak and massage oil.
Make her cook it, intermittent kino. Push, pull. After you eat, tell her to massage you (sore from gym). Tell her she's doing it wrong and do it on her (after laying out towels). get extra towel for her boobs so after the rear you can tell her to turn around and massage her boobs. done.

"I'm having an after party in mine. Why don't you come."

Get a cat.

This is going to sound stupid but my cat is very helpful! Think about it, girls love pets.

Obviously, consider all of your interactions. If there is kino involved, she's allowing you in her personal space, kissing... you know, sings that she wants it, then something like a cat could help you a lot. When all I'm looking for is a way to ask a girl to come inside, I say stuff like "Did you know I have a cat?" or "You should come in and see my roommate (my cat duh!)" and most of the time they will come in to actually see your fucking cat. Then it's up to you to escalate.

P.S. Doesn't need to be a cat. Bitches love cats but it could be anythings worth seeing (cool paintings, amazing view from your window, etc)

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