so after doing some reading and it being brought to my attention from reading, it's obvious that when you text or chat with a girl online that there should be certain guidelines to follow and other ones to avoid. my thoughts were going this way before after talking to girls online and trying figure out what did and didn't work and why i did or didn't get a response etc, but its more solid now after having it pointed out to me


some things to follow are (from my understanding)

-you want to send messages that spark good emotions in her, that would make her laugh, feel sexy etc

-if your text or message doesn't get you closer to a date or hang out etc, don't send it

-don't get into long stupid ass boring conversations, so, keep it short by doing the above things ^


is there anything else you guys could add to this??

i was thinking if you both have shared and genuine interests in something then that wouldn't be bad to talk about, but much better to talk about it in person, then again if you talked about it in text or chat, there's nothing stopping you from talking about it in person when you do see her next