ok so im getting a lot of number closes with a lot of beautiful girls but the day after when im messaging the i sometimes may not get a response, when i do get a response some of them seem blunt, and the conversations that are not blunt tend to fade out in a few days/weeks as it seems i always have to text first. the thing is if i know they are interested or ever were i dont wanna let it go, but i dont wanna text then all the time aswell as its a dlv. am i coming onto early with the first text, too sstrong with the texts or not strong enough because this is how it pretty much goes on average:

1: number close
2: the day after text something like "hey enjoy your night?" (if i get no reply i just leave it go but this rarely happens)
3: ask them are they out the weekend after or what theyre plans are
4: have some banter be cocky funny share a joke
5: - it can mellow out at this point which could be a few days/weeks in and we tend to have general coversation every so often but im always texting first!!! (am i not building enough comfort or pulling the trigger soon enough to ask on a date) sometimes by the time ive asked them on a date they have even said yes! but later pulled out admitting to me after they were nervous and it felt to soon, its like i cant fucking win!! lol

maybe my texts are too boring but to be honest in my opinion theres only so long you can go on texting before the oppurtunity has passed, i have several girls in my phonebook who i speak to now and then but i felt i have left slip away and yet from time to time i have the boring same old conversations again........

this all might sound confusing but any of you could give any advice on the issues mentioned in this that would be great!

when you're getting the number, mention meeting up.

Then when you text, use texting to set up the date.

In any case, go for the meetup sooner in the texting sequence rather than going on with longer text convos. Hopefully she got to know something about you when you met her other than that the two of you had a good vibe together so she feels a level of comfort about you in general.