Hi guys,

first of all I have to tell you that I'm from Germany but i tried my best. If something doesnt make sense for you please feel free to ask me
I got two questions but I think you need to know the whole story. I tried to keep it short.

Here it is:
I got that thing with this girl (her:19, me:21). We met some month ago in a club and had sex the same night. We met two times after that night, had fun and sex after the "dates". I had to pass two shittests ("ur to young, normally i just date older men") but everything was o.k.

I started with the pickup thing this days and she was the first girl I met after I read a lot of pickup theory. Unfortunatly I had no other girls at this time and acted very AFC like. I was needy, showed up in a club, after she texted me to come, I got a little bit angry one time after she flaked a date...

After those things, i got her to meet me again, but only for 30 minutes. I did eskalation and little makeout before she had to leave. Two days later I texted her, no awnser, four days later I tried to call her, no awnser. Three weeks after that, I met her in a club. She was there with her female friend (she was also with her when we met for the first time). First I was able to kiss her, but after she was talking to her friend outside, she blocked the next kiss and she blocked me trying to twirl her. So I went smoking. 5 minutes later she and her friend were leaving the club. I asked her, what her feelings are. She awnsered, that she got feelings for me and that shes looking for an LTR. I told her, that for me she is not just a girl I had sex with. She said, that shes not sure about me and that I am to young for her. I was drunk, so this time I failed the shittest. She and her friend left in a taxi.

The same night (i was really drunk) I texted her, that I also got feelings for her, and we should talk about it the next days. She texted back, that she is still not sure about me.

We met three days later for lunch and she killed me with two shittests. I was in a bad state at this time:
1. You are posing with ur parents car in front of the club (we had new car since two days and first she aksed me to take her on a trip )
2. You always telling me that u know the doormens at all high-class clubs (I know exactly two bouncers at two different clubs and first she wanted me to take her to those clubs)

After I failed, she told me let us text text again in like a month or something.

Now the month is over and I decided to text her again so here are the questions:
1. I think I should wait another two weeks before I text her. Because I think its looking needy if I do it now, isnt it!?
2. What could I text her? What do u think about this:
"Hey *name*, I had to think of you right now. I do not know why, but I like it! Maybe it's the new year. Regards & have a nice week! I am writing to the end of the week when I'm back in the city" But I am not sure about that...

Thanks for your help!

yo bro, i just read you situation. anyway go with option 1, do it for yourself haha. The next thing on the hit parade is what are your expectations in this relationship? there is always a lot of miscommunication between two partys when the expectatations arent being met. and does she even know what your expectaations are? make it clear. i have a feeling that you want to date her; if thats the case then tell her what the fuck is it that you want. then talk about it face to face. make it clear, dont confuse her. and if you guys cant reach an accord, on what you want/ expect..then bounce. fuck it. theres other women that youl meet at those night clubs.

This girl sounds like a level 9 gold-digger. Run. Here's who you should be texting: New girls. Go out and meet some new girls and you will soon forget about this one. You are trying to rope yourself into a relationship with her why? The girl isn't even all that into it. Find some that are. Most of all, have fun.

Reason why i want to text her after 7 weeks is to make a final try before I will delete her number and end up my mindfuck. I dont think shes a gold digger, it was more like we made fun about it. When we first met, I brought her home in my old small car. At that time we had not even the new car

So I think, her problem is the immature behavior with my parents car. Last time we met, she said also something like: if u had 30 millions u would buy a ferrari while I would buy me a little car. Or once when I've picked her up, she was pissed because I had to greatly accelerated

So we got the new car, I tried it out for 2 weeks, parked in front of the club for one time and now I am using subway again.

The other big problem was my neediness (writing her, no respond, writing her again etc.) Now I got some other girls to write and to date so I think my neediness is under control this time.

I think she was still thinking, im doin this shit all the time. If I get her to meet me, I could easily hold my frame this time, because I am doing this things no more

Maybe you got something I can write to her!

Thank you guys!

remember that texting is effective only when it comes for setting up dates or other logistical issues.

You've messed it up twice, learn from these mistakes and once you've learned this trial by error process, you wont consider them as mistakes in the near future. Moving on: Text her, be brief..set up a date, then dont show up..go off the radar..make up a bs story that you had to sort some personal business of etc..make your self attractive and hard to reach...once you've molded that image on her head you can move from there..dont be too needy, remember that there are a ton of other girls waiting for you..once you take this into consideration you can do whatever the f you want pal.

Message me if you need any other advice.