Guys what is your take on this? Am I cutting my losses to soon and making a matter out of nothing? I'm more inclined to cut a girl loose quick than tolerate any BS, supplicate, or give her the power position. Not happening.

Met a girl week before last on the dance floor, things got hot and heavy. Her friends dragged her home. She texted me the next day, I told her she's so sexy, she tells me i'm sexy and such a good dancer. Asked me to come out with her to a bar, I declined. Then she asked to meet Friday.I declined (rather ignored her) She's been texting me...I haven't been much available. Now Last Night...

She sends me a random text saying she's at a bar, it's only 10 minutes from my house. I decide to go down there and meet her. Now here's the kicker, I was kind of drunk when we met, so I don't remember clearly what she looks like. She texted me at around 11pm. I get there at around 12. I sit down, order a drink and text her saying I'm there. No response. I walk upstairs and look around, don't see her. Ring her phone...no answer. Get a call back from her number, it's a hang up?

After I leave I get a string of text saying shit like, omg, "I am so sorry, I felt so awkward, didn't know what to do, I am so mean." Turns out when I sat down at the bar, I didn't recognize her , she was practically right next to me talking with another dude ROFL. I went only because I wanted to see what she looks like in the light, maybe take her home. She's apologized 8 times, told me she was drunk, told me she'll buy me a drink (told her she owes me one)

But way I see it, it's best to cut my losses for a few reasons. I fuked up the dynamics walking in and not recognizing what she looks like. The way it all played out just sets the wrong frame. She perceived the situation as me sitting there, looking at her, too scared or AFC to approach. Assumed I called her knowing she was there talking to someone.
Plus if she's that caught up in conversation with a dude after 10 minutes she's probably a whore.
I am indifferent to most everything, including her flirting with guys...but wasting 15 minutes of my time and having me walk somewhere for NO GODDAMN reason.Intolerable....I have little to no patience.
So after her apologizing 8 times, she's hinting at getting together. I just ended the convo with "Don't go to that bar often, but maybe I'll see you around" (she didn't get the hint. Went on in a long paragraph)

On the other hand, she wasn't a complete cun*t, she was there, responded to all my text, apologized 8 times. And it's partly my fault for not recognizing her.

Or maybe this is Fates way of saving me from Herpes?

Chillax, she ain't a whore for talking to a guy.


You're just being reactive, she still likes you. You just feel awkward since you forgot what she looks like.

Snap chat /what's app/ MMS/Facebook or something, use your head, just ask her what her Facebook is then Voila , you know what she looks like... that was easy solution right?

To be honest, it sure does sound that you are just having a rant because you lost a "huge" amount of time. (15mins)

Moral of the story is... Don't get drunk

...and reactive

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It was a girl I danced with at 2am, it was somewhat dark, sexual tension was through the roof. She's been texting me ever since. In general I don't give a fk, more inclined to cut a girl loose.
But in this situation if I had recognized her, thinks would have played out much differently. It is my fault in part, because she didn't flake, she was sitting right there. Which is why I'm asking the question.

She probably left wit another guy. It's a reality of game. Women punish men for Shitty game time and time again. You need to adjust your approach. Find better wings and tighten your game. Let me explain.

Full fr is live on taf. Pull a girl. Chat up her friend. Use good girl bad girl routine.. both like me. Bf shows up. I chat him up to. They leave but not before the friend nods at my target in approval as if to say, "I hope you fuck him."

With wings, introduce sets and it avoids being blocked later. Simply, there is no excuse. If a woman wants to leave with a man, it will happen. Unfortunately, things don't always go so smoothly. Approach more. Teat compliance. Dance with a girl. Get her away from her friends even a bit. Bring her up for drinks. Don't buy. Its just testing isolation. If friends freak out, you know sooner rather thenlafter. Find out sooner then at last call. You got one girls number and that girl is getting in more approaches then you. Something isn't right.

You answered your own question. If you feel you need to do so then do it. Keep taking action and learning.

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It's debatable, best to cut my losses there. For a number of reasons.

1) A girl worth your time, who's been calling you, waiting for you, will respond right away and greet you. Why else would she be calling and texting? (Hence my whore comment).

2) appearance and emotion matter more than reality and reason. After considering the above, she assumed I recognized her. Every text and phone call bears a whole different meaning in that context.

3) I went there not remembering exactly what she looked like assuming things would proceed smoothly. In restrospect, should have called or waited for a response before walking in.

I would have NEVER called or texted her after getting her number that night, except she continued texting me even two weeks later. I'm 10 min away... so why not?

It figures that I end the night feeling up and grinding with an Indian girl. I love Spanish, European, Arabic, Indian, Persian, Turkish, Asian ect. Not so much Average white or black girl.