| I usually set up a two or three part date, similar to what David DeAngelo recommends in Double Your Dating. Have the girl accompany you on your errands, and then have the trip end at your place. Grab a bit to eat, stop at the mall, and invite her to your place to show her something cool. Then you have her in position to close.
If you want to get same night lays, you really need to ramp up escalation fast. Perform a time bridge, get the girl to bounce out of the club, and then take her home. She will often give you subtle hints that she is looking to bang you... for example, she asks "where do you live?" "Do you have a roommate?" etc. She will ask about your place, which to a girl often equals her asking for sex. Girls like asking questions that protect their backside, and protect them from possible rejection, this is known as plausible deniability.
When you get her to your place, make sure to caress her hand, if she caresses back, she is DTF.
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