Hi. I met this girl (18 yo I am 21) at the club and we connected well. Next weekend we met for cofee and later went to my place and had sex. I think she liked me pretty much.

I asked if she wanted to see me this weekend but she couldnt because she would be in another city which she told me on the date but I forgot it...

Am I to eager if I ask her out for the next weekend? The weekend after that isnt so good since my family will visit me and my father lives with me on the weekdays.
Sorry if the english was bad it is not my native language.

I'm currently in the exact same situation. I met her last week, tomorrow I've a second date.

This is what I'm thinking: If you like this girl (otherwise you wouldn't have asked her out before) and she obvious likes you, what is the problem? Just ask her out, she practically already said yes by excusing for being in that other city. And why can you only go on a date in the weekends?

Don't let her know you don't know which city she been. If it was a fun trip just ask where she's been or what she saw.. Though I don't think it will come so far, I think she will drop it herself.


I hope to hear how it ended mate, I'm gonna have a great time and I hope you have the same

Don't make yourself too available though. Don't make it look like you are patiently waiting around for her to be available. You got shit coming up, then tough she will have to wait until you've done your important shit. If the vibe is right, push for a hangout, just don't look desperate for it.