Hey guys,

So first off, I know this is a bad start, but I'm not too big into texting. I enjoy seeing people in real life but I find texting not very useful other than getting information.

Anyways, what is the whole "general idea" of texting girls?
I like the idea of just asking "hey, whats your plans for ____" "we should meet up" etc.
But beyond that I'm clueless and don't really bother.

But what happens in between all that?
What would you send after not seeing a girl for a week etc. if you can't meet up.

I've seen example texts on the forum before of things like "think you can handle it?" in response to whatever the scenario is, and raunchy stuff like that, but that really isn't me. I understand theres a time for stuff like that though. But I don't really know how to get there.

I also feel like it's suicide just being like, "hey, hows your day". Cause if you don't see each other much in between it kind of kills the vibe and gets really small-talky.

What do I doo exactly, I don't need step by step guides, but a jist of what you're going for (when NOT just asking to meet up) would be helpful.

Thanks guys

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The idea is to text with a purpose. i.e. every text should be geared towards asking the girl out. No fluff, not bs. Text to get her attention, then text to get her to agree to meet up, then text logistics.

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Very fair post man! I think the texting thing is an issue. I know what you're talking about.. like when its not possible to meet for like 10 days, and you wanna keep it hot before you become yesterdays news. A concern right?

I'm curious about if you do what theFury said (I totally get where he's coming from) will she then start to forget how she felt in the interaction?? OR... Will that be the only memory she has of you, and therefore wants more?? What do you think TheFury?

If there is a need to keep some contact by text, there are some games you can play. I need to credit Heywood Jablowme for this... "Hey lets play a game... end every text with the words 'in bed'. It starts now in bed". How ever you wanna open that text is up to you, but the 'in bed' thing is the only rule. It gets funny, and slightly sexting like.

Also I read on here that you should be calling too. But don't know everyone's opinion on that...

Look forward to hearing from people about this not being able to meet up for a week thing... should we text to keep it warm???

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Basic rules

Don't be needy:

Don't text too much

Don't ask too many questions

Get to the point

Don't text at inconvenient times

Don't be boring.

Don't text 5 texts in a row, keep it one for one

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