| I seem to get LMR quite a lot. Perhaps my game is shit and my looks are the only reason I get to the point of the bedroom. In any case, some different pointers for different situations would help (Her place, my place, at a party, etc.)
Quick look at my approach, (perhaps some guys on here do the same thing)
From my experiences in sales, I approach women with the same mindset: "Always look to close as soon as possible, and all objections are is a person asking for more or better explanation."
In short: I am bold, and direct. I feel honesty is the best approach, so I tell women what I want and escalate quickly. Any time a woman freezes out during escalation, I stop briefly, and then escalate again. So basically I continue down this path until the woman is in my bed, or I am in hers. I will try to close until either the girl gets up and leaves, or I end up giving in to lesser resistance. At the final moment my line of thinking shifts, "I know that I can dominate the girl and close, but there is a rare chance I may get in deep shit the next morning. (A no really means no situation, or the girl feels bitter).
I suppose I am doing the right thing. At the same time I feel that I have established the pace of the seduction and the pattern of breaking though resistance, so not taking the final step to close is a chump inconsistency on my part.
Example: In the past week I have had a girl in bed on two different occasions. Both girls I could not have spent no more than 5 hours with on each before moving to the bedroom (Few hours on a few occasions = roughly 5 total). I failed to close due to LMR both times.
Lastly, other than being an asshole that fiercely pursues what he wants, I am charming, kind, and witty at times. I do mix the good with the evil.
Feel free to criticize all you want. I have tough skin and learn well from criticism.
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