Meet a girl in a bar, text later and she replies "thanks but I'm seeing someone right now" with a bit of filler. Fine, it happens. The message implies that the current relationship might not last, so how do you reply without coming off as either arrogant or needy with the intention of seeing her if it doesn't work out - possible?

Thanks!

what did you say to her when you texted her?

just say wow.. slow down... i dont want you
i just thought you seemed friendly... say that you just wanted to be friends

if that doesn't work.. try and convince her that you are gay so she is comfortable to actually go out and meet up with you even though she has a boyfriend, girls like having a gay friend..

if you can manage to get her out with that excuse still try to pretend your gay and eventually warm up to her.. try to get her back to your place and convince her your eager to try new things.. (new things being her)

then make a move and immediately stop is she goes for it... say your not sure if you feel comfortable with what your about to do... stare into her eyes and then just say "fuck it" and go for it... the instant passion will get her off guard and make her more acceptable to have sex with you

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