I was texting a girl yesterday and I laid it on pretty heavy about telling her that I was going to have sex with her and she very responsive, kept up the flow of messages and then texted me every hour until I fell asleep.

I have not had sex with her yet.

I then got a message from her at about 2am and it went like this:

HB: Sooo, are you still up?
HB: What are your plans for today?

Me: Mmm

HB: Ehm, what is that?

Me: The noise ip (i accidentally sent the message)
Me: I give up, back to sleep with me!

HB: What a deep statement!

Me: Enough with all the debating
Me: you should join me, unless you are wearing those jeans from Sunday...no one has enough time to get those things off

HB: Yeah im on my way right now! (she lives miles away)

Me: My penis doesnt understand sarcasm! don't do that!

HB: Woohoo, should i get scared? I can talk whichever way I like lol

Me: I dont know what you are talking about. but I would do some pretty naughty things to you if you were here, so be scared or don't

At this point I can see she has read the message. She goes silent and then I get this at 7.30 this morning:

HB: Mmmm Im really not sure what to say heh

I have ignored this. She has given me plenty of IoIs but this has not escalated like I wanted (talking openly about sex)

Anyone have some thing that I could follow up with? My instinct is to just leave it and start from scratch another day.

Why are you getting sexual through a text message? She can't suck your dick through the phone. Get her to hang out with you for OTHER REASONS besides having sex... THEN escalate sexually. You probably creeped her the fuck out dude.

One thing I learned from selling cars.... You can't sell a car through the phone. Get them in the door and THEN close the deal. Same applies to pick up. Stop being such a pervert and start being someone fun that she will want to hang out with.