I can get girls numbers very easily. It's not a big deal. I had a great encounter with this HB7 and I dig her. We've been texting for a while. Not every day but we've had conversation. When I ask her to come out to a bar I get the "maybe" response. How the F**K do we get these women to commit to something over text?

Our recent text encounter was like this:

Me:Wanna come to Hoboken this weekend?
Her:Maybe?
Me:Friday or Saturday night.
Her: Ok Maybe
Me:Cool. I don't have plans this weekend.
Her: Well there is a lot of time before the weekend.

She said in person she wanted to meet up again and when I tried to set something up she said she was going on vacation and we would hang when she got back. Now she is back so I'm trying to day 2. How do I do this?

P.S. I don't want to hear ppl say "call her and stand out" that doesn't work. I've called this HB8 to set something up and I get ignored almost every time. She only called me back after an unanswered call once and then flaked on the date we set up.

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You are getting ignored because she isn't attracted to you! You will almost NEVER get a girl to come hang out with you via text... Ever. She has to hear your voice.

Here... I will dissect this for you....

Me:Wanna come to Hoboken this weekend? ..... Don't ASK her to do something. Tell her what you are doing. Invite her along with.

Her:Maybe? .... You asked a question, she responded with one. That's normal for her to test you.

Me:Friday or Saturday night. ........ Be decisive. Pick a date. That's the day. End of discussion. She can either join or not.
Her: Ok Maybe ..... You were in decisive... She follows suite.

Me:Cool. I don't have plans this weekend. ...... don't ever ever ever tell a girl you don't have plans. Make plans. Invite her with. This is what high value guys do. Be busy. Always.

Her: Well there is a lot of time before the weekend. .... This is her way of nicely letting you down.

Hate to be the bearer of bad news... But you are definitely slipping into the friend zone with this girl. Don't talk to her again until she re-initiates the conversation. Go game other women. As soon as you forget about her, she will come back around. You can re-build the attraction then.

Holy hell the complexity of these women is ridiculous. I fucking hate this game.

I even get flaked on when I'm assertive. I was gaming another girl whose number I got that same night and I was telling her what I was doing and what I wanted her to do just to play the game that way and I can't catch a damn break.

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AFC Level 1

LOL!!!! Nobody said this was gonna be easy...

They are not logical creatures.