In my time at college I've grown a lot personally and really built my own self-confidence. I used to be a shy, quiet person in grammar school but now am pretty out-going and social amongst my co-workers. It still hasn't translated to closing with women, however, I've improved quite a bit and just have one hurdle to cross. I now have my degree and am a very ambitious person and that has shown to be a DHV with a lot of girls. I also go to the gym a lot, have a pretty athletic frame and am confident in my appearance.

My biggest hurdle is getting over my lack of sexual experience. 21 going on 22, I'm embarrassed of my lack of experience, and I think some times it prevents me from pursuing the escalation stage with women. A big hurdle of that is kissing. I've only kissed a girl in the club when we were both extremely drunk and not even sure if I was doing it correctly. I know kissing can be a huge tool in leading to sex and when I do kiss a girl I don't want to be horrible at it. Its just a lack of experience and could use tips on what to do (I think my vision of a kiss and what I would attempt is puckering, locking lips and breaking it, and I know this is wrong. I need more tips on actually making out and locking lips.)

I've had multiple girls where I think if I was more aggressive and forward about my conquests, trying to get them back to my place, things probably could happen. But my nervousness about my inexperience usually prevents me from making moves. I've improved myself quite a bit and a lot of this is due to my confidence level, but sexual confidence is still something I lack. Any help, particularly when it comes to kissing, or in terms of sexual techniques and tactics for building confidence, would be appreciated.

Kissing (like sex) has to do with a girls comfort levels of you touching her. Escalate kino properly and make the kiss seem as if it just "happened" and keep escalating. My rule of thumb is if a girl lets me touch her face, she will let me kiss her. That's when I'll make my move and kiss her.

As far as being a good "kisser" goes.... Just don't be sloppy and nasty when you kiss her. Let your hands wander and keep touching and really get her into the moment. Make it sexy and that's what she will like