So I went to the bar the other day with 2 of my friends, both female. We go in, all get a couple drinks first and we walk around the bar but it isn't too active. They both kept saying how badly they just wanted to go dance and enjoy the night but the bar we were at wasn't all that, so we walked around outside to find better spots.

We go outside and there's people promoting their bars SPAM wristbands for free entry and one free drink each. We get a wristband for two different bars and hit up the first one. We go inside and this one is much better, big ass dance floor, tons of people - it was more of a club type environment. We grab drinks and head over to the dance floor.

I was dancing with both of them the entire night, all of us getting pretty buzzed. I was walking through the crowd with my friends and some other girl I didn't know (she was with two guys) brushed her hand up and down my arm. I say whats up and after she says hi I just start dancing with her. Then I accidentally stepped on her foot and she gets mad, so I leave lol. I figured this at least DHV as the girls I was with saw me grinding on another girl.

Anyway, I'm dancing with one of the girls I'm with and the other one was off doing her own thing and we start making out. We make out for a good 30 seconds or so then she stops, saying she doesn't want the other girl to see. There's sexual tension between us the whole night. An hour or so later (after drinking more, walking around, going to the bathroom, etc.) we're dancing again and I give her a quick 5 second french kiss and she stops me again for the same reason. She tells me how sexy I am, particularly my eyes, and she invites me to her place when we get back and says "I'm not gonna have sex with you, I just want to make out with you." I say "yes of course, me too."

Later on when we get back home, we say bye to the other girl and I go over to her place. She brings me inside, I wait on her bed while she uses the restroom. She comes in her room and turns off the light. We start making out ferociously; I lead as I feel she doesn't have much experience in bed or if she does it was generally very boring make out. I kiss her, sticking my tongue in her mouth, give the occasional lip bite and move my head down and start kissing her neck. I give a slight nibble on her neck (girls fucking love this) then go back up to her mouth and grab her throat and hold her neck tightly, but not so that it actually chokes her. She got really turned on as any girl would because it adds a sense of excitement and danger (even though she knew she wasn't really in any danger).

I go to take off her shirt and her bra and I start sucking on her nipples. She is moaning already and I could tell she is enjoying herself. I continue to escalate and she takes off my shirt. I remover her jeans and continue to make out while rubbing her clit over her panties. I remove her panties and go down on her. She is moaning so loudly the neighbors could probably hear. I suck on her clit and start to finger her but she pushes my hand away. I continue to suck and lick her and try to finger her one more time around 2 minutes later, but she pushes my hand away again.

She reciprocates and goes down on me. She sucks my dick for a good 3-4 minutes, putting it all the way in her throat. I've never met a girl who could deep throat my whole dick before as its a good 8 inches long. After she stops I try to start fucking her but she tells me to stop and says she isn't going to have sex with me. I tell her "I don't want you to do anything you don't feel comfortable with". We continue with the foreplay a few more minutes and try to stick my dick in her again and she tells me no.

That was it. I didn't know what to do to make her want to fuck me. We stop messing around, leaving me with blue balls. I go home and fap my night away. It was still a halfway decent night as I got out, got drunk, got a blow job, and had fun but I didn't get to f-close anyone. I have had this problem before and don't know how to deal with it. How do you deal with this last minute resistance. It seemed she made up her mind early in the night before I even went to her place but I thought I could change her mind once we got down and dirty. What advice do you recommend so that I don't have to deal with blue balls again?