Hi Folks,

I just joined this forum after reading the book "the game" and this is my first post.

I really need some advice on how to proceed with an Asian HB I met.

Ill layout the whole story in detail;

I met a HB(Kim) at a party I hosted at my place. I got her number but never really paid attention to her. Later after the party we exchanged few txt messages and that was it. I saw her with her friend (Lisa) again at a pub and I hit on her friend lisa. I took her friend Lisa out on a date. The date wit the HB's friend didn't go well (i have not read the game at that time and did all the wrong things and i'm not surprised about my fail)

One evening HB (kim) asked me to join a beach party with her friends. I told her that I wont be able to make it. Anyways.. Later at that night, I showed up at the beach party with a friend. I didn't pay much attention to Kim . At last I went to Kim and did style's Cube test on her. she seemed interested and started giving me IOI's. Next I had a bet with her with styles 5 questions challenge, i told her that she should take me out to a dinner and pay for me if she fails to win the challenge. She won and I had to take her out on dinner and pay for it. at the beach party and at the dinner she was giving me IOI's but i never tried to kiss her. at the dinner she wanted me to go back to her place but she told we can't go in to her room because she is sharing it with her friend. I told her that i have to work the next day so i proposed we go to my place instead . but she didn't agree. so we departed agreeing to meet again another day.

I waited for a week after the dinner expecting she would contact me. But she didn't contact me. So today I messaged her on facebook asking her to go out with me. at one point in the chat she said "we are good friends. Don't fall in love with me" i retaliated with.. "Lol where did you get that idea? I'm not that easy.."
but she said shes busy but she can go with me next week..

I know i screwed up by not going in for the kiss and I think screwed up again by showing too much attention/interest while chatting.

She will be going to this night bicycle riding event in a few days which I'm planning to go to as well.

Guys.. what's on your take on this?
What should I do next?
What should i do at the bicycle riding event? should I stick with her at the event or should i approach other girls at the event?
How do i get her interested in me while not showing neediness and also not giving her a bad impression that i'm hitting on other girls at the event? Or should I hit on other girls so she gets jealous and wants me? Please advice..


Thanks,
Lov