OK I landed a date with a HB9, went for a drink and a bite to eat one night (wouldn't of usually done a 'dinner' date but this seemed to be the only night we both had free) and things went pretty smooth. I have another date with her Sat night, we are going out near my place for drinks in a few cool bars I know.

Just looking for some tips/games/ideas to make the night more interesting/fun. Any ideas?

I dont want it to be a plain old going for drinks date, she is a HB9 so im sure loads of people have taken her out like this so want to stand out, and hopefully take her back to mine

Honestly bro, if this is a girl you want to keep around for a while... DON'T bring her to a bar. If you want to use her as a pivot... Then I retract my previous statement. Do other shit where the 2 of you can be alone.

One thing I've found girls like that I usually do as a first date is House/Car shopping

Call a real estate agent and tell him you want to take a look at a house he has listed in your area. Bring her with but play a little game with it. Act like the 2 of you are getting married in 6 months and are looking for a new home. Except when you get there... FIGHT OVER EVERYTHING! Not enough closets, kitchen doesn't have enough room for you to make a mess and her to clean up, your basement isn't big enough for your Man Cave, you don't like this, she hates that, you both start arguing and get to a point where you call off the wedding right infront of the real estate agent. It's pretty fuckin funny lol Sometimes I will do the same thing with cars... Go to a dealership and say we are looking for a car... She wants an SUV but you want a sports car. Be that crazy couple who should never be getting married in the first place because they are just DOOMED. Girls LOVE people watching... That is a crazy form of it. Make a bet with her on whoever starts cracking up first owes the other one dinner or something. The key is to have fun with her now. Bringing a girl who you like to a bar is kind of going against the phrase "Don't shit where you eat"

A bit of background maybe I should have mentioned.....she has just broke up with her ex as she is heading off travelling in August, she has mentioned she isnt looking for a bf as it would be pointless.

Also, the dates set, it was kind of agreed in the first that we should do drinks as intended for the first date, she hasn't been to the bars Im taking her too and she mentioned she wanted to go before date 1.

I will keep that in mind for another date tho it sounds pretty funny I can see something like that working.

Even better.

You don't WANT it to seem like a date. What happens in a women's eyes during a "date?" She ends up having sex with you at the end of it. You're a new guy. Once she starts to think that LOGICALLY, she will freak out and cancel.

You don't want her to LOGICALLY think about having sex with you. It should just "happen." That way she won't get that feeling of buyers remorse. Hitting her emotions by doing something "fun" will make her seem like she is just having "fun" when you are fooling around with her in your bed. Stay away from the bar/dinner/ your typical date shit. She will either flake or feel very nervous. If you want to do that and you "happen to stop there" once you have her... then fine. But giving a girl the plan for a typical "date" is going to usually result in her flaking or freaking. Coming from experience. Keep what you are doing pretty meaningless and make it seem like an every day activity.

OK i hear you, I have definitely kept the invites low key and the pressure off so it doesn't sit in her mind as a 'date-date', which I know is the way to do it, but its obvious what it is.

OK I've been thinking and the drinks are pretty much set in stone so maybe this as an idea; we spoke about putt-putt (mini golf) before and i was saying I havent played and she loves it. Im thinking maybe a few hours before we meet I just say something like 'hey lets go play some putt putt before we go for drinks, you can teach me how to play'

Im thinking thats a good idea because its active, fun, competitive and it will give us an extra activity/venue to add to the night......

This will help:

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This is funny as fuck. Absolutely using this for a future date.

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