I find this out last night while im sarging with my buddy. This girl(K-Closed)and I were talking for a week or 2 via text. I set up a day 2, but she had to decline b/c she was busy. To be fair, she did leave it open for me to invite her again. Fair enough... Anyways, days went by and I became busy with my own life. So she really wasn't on my radar. However, I was surprised that she never initiated anything via text during those 2 weeks.

So two weeks forward, I'm sarging with my buddy and I notice her with her friends. I'm pretty sure she saw me, but she never said anything. Fine by me, b/c my goal for the night was to have fun and practice my game.

Towards the end of the night, our paths crossed and I decided to start a conversation. It was awkward but I've come to enjoy awkwardness. There was good banter between us. Heck, I think I even got the mother hen to appreciate me. So I lightly Kinoed and she seemed responsive. I didn't escalate b/c I was somewhat sick(she didn't know) and at that moment I wasn't sure what I wanted out of the situation. All in all, I personally think I put myself in a position where she can be an option. Based on how everything went, I think she would be down for a day 2.

However, her drunk friend told me earlier that night that the girl in question wants me to chase her.

So in short, How to deal with girls that want to be chased?

Stick to your game dude. Go for the day 2 definitely. But don't turn into some love struck pussy who will "do anything the have his queen"

When a girls friends tells you something like that, it means that she is letting you know that she is single and that she likes you. I think the wording of her saying "She wants you to chase her" got inside your head a bit. Don't do that. Don't ever, ever, EVER, do that.

Keep up the good work. Being available but yet at the same time UNavailable is important to getting the girl you want.

Should I be doing anything different in the text game?

She's only initiated a text conv. once. All other texts conv. have been started by me.

Just keep yourself on her mind. You can kill your chances through text. Don't treat text as a way of building comfort... its a means of communication between seeing each other again. I'm a fan of mystery because there's alot of evolutionary shit that he talks about... but remember, back in the day, people didn't HAVE cell phones and shit to communicate. It was just the next time they saw each other.

Just text her cute little shit every so often, just so she doesn't forget about you and the feelings that she had, and wait for a time when she wants to see you again. Wait it out and it will happen. Talk to other girls in the mean time. Have dirty, hot nasty sex with them lol