So I k-closed a girl after being mostly alpha non-verbal. Talked to her a bit but didn't really have the time to build great rapport. Anyway told her i had to go and she gave me her number.

I texted the next day, told her she seemed cool so i was taking her for a drink on tuesday. Texted a bit until tuesday, playfull and cool. 2h before we were supposed to meet she flaked, i replied 'no probs, i'll invite someone else'.


Since i didn't build a lot of rapport, i am not sure if i should freeze her out?
Or should i just text her something like: ' hmm, i'm in doubt of taking you out for another drink, but not sure... Convince me.' Just to make her qualify.

Or just next her altogether?

Thanks

Stop being desperate. If you didn't have a girl to invite instead, then that should be your reality check on why you went out solo or sat on your couch and farted alone.

Going out of your way to make a girl qualify for you is pretty counterproductive. If she wanted to qualify for you she'd put in the work and you wouldn't have to.

Try this. Get numbers. If you don't close that night then don't call them back. EVER. Your abundance will build and then you won't have questions to ask like this. Good job getting the number, but at the end of the day, if you're just one guy with one girl's number you don't have the abundance or experience to move on with it. This is a dark cycle if you don't push through it. Right now, this girl has ten different options for Tuesday and you have one. It's just way more important to you and more meaningless to her. So until you have that mindset, all these freeze-out/push-pull texty fluff is just you being full of shit and internally dry and void. If you want to stop acting like a needy chode, you have to enter into the reality of those in abundance.

AKA - If you want to endorse and accept the lifestyle of an elite player/attractive female, you have to build up the abundance foundation.

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