Alright, rAFC to PUA (not yet) here! Right now I'm having some problems processing and understanding day 2s. This has happened twice now and I don't want it to happen again this way. Context is I picked this girl up in a bar, story is here: first-club-close-vt159036.html

We met and played pool, she was nervous and she beat me because I actually suck at pool, hard! We sat down afterwards and there was lots of kino on my behalf but she wasn't a touchy person. She held my hand passively at one point (not the first time a woman has kinda held my hand, but loosely) and I don't know what THIS MEANS?! The other thing is, I increase buying temperature and I have no idea if its working or not. Girls never reject my statements and ultimately they make some form of kiss close suggestion and I just go for it! I don't know how to kino escalate with the buying temperature because I can't read her body language properly yet.

In the end I suggested we move to a couch so I can talk to her properly and she asked if I was doing that just so I could kiss her. I agreed and she said she wasn't good at PDA, so I grabbed her hand and we made out softly for a bit. I pulled away and then she brought me back until she 'decided' that that was 'enough.'

Help?!???!!

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Being bad at something is the first step to being good at something.

Read this:

http://www.authenticpua.com/dating-arti ... l-tension/

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The natural "Steve" who trained Richard La Ruina (Gambler)

http://www.authenticpua.com/primal-seduction/

I think what that article showed me was that I didn't have to be afraid to do what I would do when I first meet the girl on a day 2. Also the Kino escalation ladder is another thing I need to learn.

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