Met this HB9 through work. Directly asked her out after 2-3 short conversations. She said yes. Went out to a restaurant for food/drink, spent 3 hrs talking, she was asking me if I'm seeing someone and past relationship and went on to tell about her past, we spoke about everything under the sun. She says we should hang out again tomorrow, probably go shopping. I said sounds like a plan let me know.

We work in the same building, so next day when she's done with work, she asks me if I'm at office. I reply an hour later asking her out for movie. We both are 26.

Both these dates (or whatever you wanna call it) I couldn't kino escalate. I've done the usual high five's, touching her arms, standing close. She doesn't seem to be reacting much to physical contact or initiating them. Other than that she's up for any plans I make.

I definitely want to k-close her by 4th date.

I suggested we watch a movie at my office (which I own); probably get her drunk and go for the kiss. I've done this 3 times before and its worked like a charm.

Do you guys have any other ideas for a date where I can kino-escalate? Or what do you think about the office-movie plan? What could be the reason why she isn't responding to physical contact?

P.S: She's hot, intelligent and rich and gets hit by lots of guys.

Bro, you're moving too slow. She's waiting for you to make a move. If you see her again... that kiss is gonna be awkward as fuck. Learn how to gauge her comfort levels better and I guarantee you would have kissed her at the bar on the FIRST date. Girls have this little demon in their head that says "If he's the one, something would have happened by now." The longer you wait, the more staled out and bored she is gonna get. Girls are like little kids. You have their attention as long as you keep entertaining them and once you stop.. its like they are off to the next shiny thing lol