Hey you PuA out there,

I´ve got a quick question..

I went dancing (standard) with this girl twice, she´s´ looking for a dancing partner. She seemed really interessted in doing other stuff with me as well, such as cooking.. but canceled because she had to study for exams..

we actually txt a lot, maybe a bit too much.. her answers became shorter and she takes longer to reply. Maybe that´s just me overanalyzing and naysaying..

anyway.. We´re going shopping tomorrow, she told me she just has two hours and is meeting with friends afterwards.

So its the 3rd date and we didn´t kiss so far.. I just wanna seal the deal, don´t wanna go to LBJF again..

We will be out shopping and maybe stop for coffe the whole time, so would it be wise to kiss her in public for the first time or rather be patient and persistent and wait for 4th or until the dancing lesson´s gonna start?

any thoughts and comments are appreciated

thx so much , keep

Are you kinoing her? That is super crucial for any date.

If her texts are getting shorter and she's taking longer to reply, you're either texting her too often, replying too soon, or most likely a combo of both. Ease up on the texts and make sure yours aren't longer than hers, if possible.

Forget about whether or not it's okay to kiss her in public. You're on a date. Dates are always in public. Unless you get her back to your pad, you're going to HAVE to kiss her in public.

I'm not sure what your method is, but don't bother with routines or anything. This is what I do to kiss close

Me: Hey
Her: What?
Me: *Kiss close*

It takes some balls, but if you've been kinoing her- which usually results in her kinoing you back if she's into you- you won't be nearly as nervous as if you haven't been kinoing her. And, of course, I wait for a proper moment and gauge the sexual tension. Hope this helps.

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This whole scenario screams AFC. You are texting her a bunch like you two are girlfriends. Then she starts losing interest in your texts, which is expected. Then you arrange a date for another girlfriendy-type thing--shopping. And she gives you a time constraint, which is really just a bullshit excuse to bail out on the date early.

I agree that kino is the way to go here. And then kiss her when it comes natural.

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