Long story short met a cute 32 year old off Craigslist (I'm 24) for a drink. Lots of flirting in the texts leading up to the date. We had a great 3-hour conversation that was almost all about sex and we both joke about having sex with each other, to the point where we speculate if I would fit inside her (she's like 5'0").

At the end of the night I go for a kiss. She holds it for a second then breaks it off, saying she feels like a prostitute because she kissed another guy that same day. I go again when we're at her car, and she pulls back after a second, saying "Get off me, freak." (I'm assuming it wasn't a big deal since we're still talking). I play it off with a joke and we say goodnight.

A couple days later we get into the talk of what we're each looking for. Apparently she thought my ad was just looking for friends and she tells me she's not looking for casual sex. I had a rare AFC moment and ended up doing a sort of "let's not bother with labels, I'm comfortable with my sexuality, if that's not what you want I'm fine being friends blah blah blah" sort of moment.

Since then we've been texting back and forth every couple days. I really don't have any issues just being friends with her, but I want to know if there's a way I can recover/break out of this LJBF thing. Never had to deal with it before.

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D.G.A.F. isn't just a state. It's a lifestyle.

Flip the script on her ass.

Next time you schedule a "meet"

Tell her "As long as you keep your hands to yourself" "I'm not easy like that!" all in a humorous manner.

Get the convo sexual again, and escalate normally!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Lol, that's the exact same script I normally use. I guess I forgot it because our conversation got so sexual so fast, it would have felt weird to use it since I thought she was serious about us fucking. I'll use this and see how it goes.

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D.G.A.F. isn't just a state. It's a lifestyle.

This is what I would do. This is what an alpha would do. Here's what you should do.

Treat her just like you would any other girl you are trying to get with. Call her up and ask her out. If she's like "Just as friends, right?" Tell her yea sure whatever. Remember, what a girl says really doesn't matter. Just like it doesn't matter what haters say or what anyone says when they are trying to deprive you of things you deserve in life.

Then when you are on your date start escalating. She might say "Hey, I thought we agreed to just be friends?" Then you reply "We did." and just keep escalating and flirting. Make it clear to her, through your ACTIONS, that your frame is much stronger than her LJBF frame. You're not gonna' start whining. You're not going to start trying to rationalize with her why you should be more than friends. All you are going to do is continue to behave towards her as you would any other girl you are trying to sleep with. And whatever resistance she puts up you will deflect away as nonchalantly as possible.

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