Ok let me keep this as short as possible so that you guys don get bored. I am an Indian guy and for the past three months I v been hanging out almost every weekend with a French chick, lets call her X. In between her friends were here in India for a vacation and I kinda connected with one of her friends but she left too early for me to be able to do anything.. Lets call this friend Y (I guess I was just reaping the benefits of being able to speak some French ). Anyways I had actually chikened out on kissing this chick X loong back and I had texted her asking if she wanted to kiss me or not around 3 months back.. She replied back saying she is still in love with her ex and did not want to hurt me... So I just let it go but she kept calling me every weekend just to go drink and party in general. Then one night while we were drinking we both spoke about our sexcapades in general and she told me she was involved in a gangbang with 5 guys and I told her about my 5some with some whores and friends lol ! She had even spoken about how sex is normal for her and love is more crazy.. I always used to sleep over with her on her bed whenever we got back late from our parties but we never did anything cause the first time she let me sleep on the same bed, I told her it was odd for me to sleep on the same bed without doing anything and she insisted it was normal for her to sleep with guys without any action and maybe its just Indian guys who get ideas. So I just stayed cool and din jump her. But lately after all the sex talk I just felt maybe she wants to fuck. So I texted her again asking if she had any feelings now and she insited she just wanted to be friends. So I texted her "how about we just become friends with benefits then lol". And she just replied "lol you are crazy"..

Anyways after this chat one of her friends had texted me and another buddy of mine on FB about some stuff and I did not notice her friend in the loop and texted back thinking it was just my friend in the chat saying " doesnt look like I can get into X's pants cause she just wants to be friends anyways fk it she aint worth it but her hotty friend Y was " So her friend obviously told her this and so X texted me back saying never to contact her !! That night I went to meet her in person and apologize and I told her I was high on weed and did not know what I was saying. Plus I was kinda feeling bad that she did not have feelings for me. She insisted that just because she lets me sleep in her bed and hangs out with me doesnt mean she has feelings for me. She was also saying that me asking her just to be friends with benefits shows I just want to use her as garbage and throw her away. I told her I sent all those text when I was out of my mind and that I still have feelings for her and maybe I just read her signals wrongly and told her to give me some time and that I will contact her back when im alright !!

For now I have disconnected all contacts with her but this looks like a lost cause. I dont want to be like her gf with whom she can share everytime she makes out or fucks a guy !! For the love of god can someone tell me if I should continue seeing her normally or if I shud just cut contact and wait for her to get int touch?! She might not given that I told her I would be contacting her... Any ideas , suggestions from you pros would be helpful ! Thanks...

I am not a pro by any means bruh, but this definitely seems like a lost cause. Looked that part even when you mentioned earlier she said she still had feelings for her ex, but I guess some people would dismiss that as a shit test, but from what I am understanding that she sleeps with other men on the regular without any action and what not, you're just like water down the drain to her typical wild behavior. Some broads are just complicated and/or crazy, and this french broad does not seem to be an exception. Makes me wonder if what I hear about French women being so open about their sex lives is pretty true. She doesn't want anything to do with you now after what you said. If she does she will contact you, but don't go chasing after her in hopes of her changing her mind and sleeping with you. Just my two cents.

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Hey thanks a lot for the reply bro !! Well she had actually confirmed that her ex had nothing to do with how she had no feelings for me ! I think my mistake was not jumping her initially when she let me in her bed but that could have made me come out as a total creeper who cant keep his cool.

For now I have cut all contacts with her so that I dont start messaging or calling her like a pussy lol ! You are right maybe she just needs a fuck from other guys and wanted me to be her trustworthy friend Fk that shit I cant take it I dont wanna be no girlfriend to these bitches lol... The key is to keep ourselves as the prized possession.. I need to look at this and turn the tables that she missed out on a good fuck from me which she could have remembered for the rest of her life haha..tht be. On another note I might be heading to Bangkok for a fuck cause I feel the fact that I havent fucked for 2 years is messing with my cool attitude towards chicks and I am just trying to look for love in places where they dont exist !

Would love to get other people's comments too this could help a lot of guys who are in their initial stages of gaming !! Thanks

Ok here's follow up on whats going on with this chick. She texted me saying "happy Diwali" for an indian festival and also texted me during my birthday. Usually she used to end the text with a "kisses" sign off but this time there was nothing in the ending meaning it was all just formal wishes to make sure she aint rude or something. Anyways yesterday night I got drunk and messaged her that I was having some shots and it would have been fun if she was thr. We just texted for a while and things seemed cool. She said she is not an alcoholic and enjoys other things too. I told her I have no idea what else she enjoys and she din reply to it lol ! I dont know if she is getting bored and messaging me or if she just wants to be friends. I told her the truth about my FB message stuff being a mistake and she had texted me sayin she was thankful for the explanation and the truth!

Just let me know if I should still be trying to jump her or just act cool and be friends with her ?! This female has been shit confusing but come on whats life if it aint a mystery ?! lol !

She may have banged you at some point but the stuff about throwing her away like garbage pretty much says you're out of luck, because her view of you is off. Stop bothering with this.

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Hey guys ! Well this might seem stupid but due to the lack of having met any interesting women I just casually asked this same French chick out for lunch around a month back and she accepted the invitation. Things went pretty well and we met up again for a movie which she really liked. After that went out with her and some of her friends for dinner and drinks. Just wondering if there is any game to be played around here or should I just wait for her to regain her trust before trying anything stupid again ? LOL

Many Thanks !!

In all honesty, it sounds like she was throwing herself at you in the beginning. When she told you it was OK for you to sleep in her bed she was basically inviting you to fuck her. Obviously by nature she won't initiate and ask you to fuck her because she doesn't want you to think she's a slut. But it really was her throwing herself at you, and you didn't take it.

At this point, it sounds like you've been re-initiated into the friendzone/girlfriends. The only way I can see you getting her is if you cut contact for a long period of time (a year I'd say) and start fresh again after that. Make sure to seize the opportunity. But even after a year, I'd say it's quite optimistic.

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Hey thanks for the reply... Well I just got back after clubbing with her. She was cool with dancing with me but when I got really close and kinda had my dick touch her she backed off a bit lol. But I think there was good Kino. I leaned in and smelt her neck and said she smelled good and there was a lot of sex talk. When I got back to drop her there was some talk about left balls hanging down more than the right one lmfao but in all honestly I was not sure if she was just acting funny or if she wanted to do anything.

She did linger for a bit in the car but then leaned in just for me to kiss her on her cheeks as I always do and said goodbye and not to think too much about balls. I guess its too soon to try something with her but I dont know maybe I shud v pushed it a bit today. She kept talking about these social networks we can use to meet new people and when she saw a couple kissing in the open she said it was cool that finally people were getting more open in a country like India and its cool to kiss in public. Also we met a couple just before we left and they actually spoke like they were best friends but on speaking further we got to know they had just met and she was again like ok thats really cool they just met and maybe are hooking up.

Well there was no invitation to go back and sleep at her place so I guess its good I din just try to mess around and lose all attraction. The truth is I did cut her off for like 2.5 months and she was not too happy about it ! Anyways lemme see how this goes I really need to step up my kiss closing game

Thanks