Out with a HB6 or so I met on POF. Played the messaging and texting ok.. created some attraction and a little sexual tension. Wasn't over-anxious.

Planned the meeting pretty well. Night meet up, made it a little adventure, didn't give her the details before hand and she was excited about that. Now the progress through the date was mostly done naturally, not a single routine, just kept in mind the principles about trying to maintain control and escalate sexual tension and whatnot.

Now I prob could have done things differently to make her be chasing me a little more, but I'm very new to PUA and actually haven't learned much.. just basic principles so far. Anyway I got her to give ME the first kiss about 40 min in.. Was nice soft wet one in public so that was a good sign. Then 20 min later in the date SHE brings up sexual topics. I'm in awe. Tried to keep my cool, think I did fine.

We left to go to another bar or something and I grabbed her and put her up against a wall and started making out with her. Lots of tongue, lots of ass grabbing but no tit or puss stuff yet. We decide to walk towards her car after that instead of going to another bar and I suggested we go to her place. She declined, and not really playfully either so I kind of got stumped and didn't react prob how I should have. Anyway kept my cool, didn't let her see it bother me then we get back to the car.

We start making out HARD in the parking lot.. was just us. I'm grabbing ass, rubbing puss through jeans and she was fine with it. Rubbing chest and she pushed my hand away most of the time. Wouldn't let me go under bra or down pants. I tried putting her hand on my crotch a couple times, didn't work. After I pushed her away for a little bit then brought her back, she started to rub my pants a little bit. I kept telling her we should get in the car she said no. Tried under the shirt again, no. Just heavy makeout. I would push her away every now and then and she would always come back for kiss but nothing else.

After 30 min or so I ended up saying something like I gotta wake up early for work. What I really meant was "I'm not getting anywhere with this and I'm getting frustrated". I didn't convey it as angry, but she didn't seem very excited when we left.. The feeling I got was that she was disappointed I was giving up. How much longer would you have gone on before you called it a night as well? I mean in retrospect I feel like if I was out there making out with her for like an hour I might have gotten further but I also kind of had it in my head that I wanted to maintain control..

So anyway I didn't contact her after I left and neither did she. I sent her a text this afternoon telling her I was thinking about her to maybe put some of her insecurities at bay.. I feel like there's a fine line between being a challenge and her getting mad for me waiting to call. She wrote back somewhat playful, got some hahas. I wrote another message a few hours later on my way home from work and her answer was pretty short.. I decided to call her after that to say hi and possibly go for a round two, she didn't pick up and hasn't called back. Obviously I'm going to put a halt on communication at the moment. Just not sure how to play it after that, and if I should have pushed harder last night. Sorry for the long ass message fellas, any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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