Short story (honestly):

Met girl online, managed to secure 1st date after some email banter. On the date we're getting on great, half way through she announces "I wouldn't normally do this but"...and then proceeds to pull me in for some fairly heavy making out. We eventually stop, rest of date there's palpable sexual tension but after a few more wee make outs (& her telling me she wants to f**k me) we agree to go our seperate ways.

Cue a few texts back and forth and arrange second date at mine, I cook, we play Mario Kart (she's apparently addicted to the game), it get's late and she stay's over...spend most of the next day hanging out and arrange to go to a concert a couple of days later that I have a spare ticket for. Go to concert, have a great time...half way through making out in the train station she pulls away and says she really likes me, but thinks we should slow down a bit as she doesnt want to screw it up.

Anyways, get a couple of texts from her the next day, I respond to the first one, then leave the second for a couple of days then ask if she's free at the weekend...yada yada..she can't make, as she has a friend over from Norway for the weekend. Since then i've initiated a couple of text convos, the last time asking for the next date. She said she wasn't feeling well and was going to have to spend the next few days studying to catch up on the lost time due to illness & her friend being over for the weekend but she'd get back to me.

So basically...trying to work out if I've blown this and the lass has lost interest or if I should wait a couple more days then try the final "you feeling better enough to get your ass kicked at mario kart again?"

I'm baffled how when a girl says she wants to fuck you... and you don't fuck her

I did say shortened story - she was on the blob at the time and then went on to have a bit of an 'internal struggle'...I decided not to push it as I didn't think it would have worked out favourably.