Hi guys,

Ill try to keep this short but I have the worst performance anxiety and it is destroying my relationships. I do not find it hard to speak to women or even to pick them up and most weekends I will go out and pull. But I get the WORST performance anxiety and just cant get it up, The last 20 girls I have had sex with I haven't been able to keep the little soldier up for more than a few minutes at a time let alone be able to climax.

I have stopped fapping for the last 2 weeks but it still happened. Its stopping me from building relationships with girls I like cos obviously its freaking embarrassing and ill shy away from seeing them again. Everything physically works fine, but its a mental thing.

Does anyone have any advice on the matter? You will be a life saver.

Many thanks

Hey Man, I was going through the exact same thing.

I tried everything from not masturbating to watching porn while fucking to no avail.
so I understand how frustrating it must be, it gets so frustrating that you want to avoid sex all together.

Now there is a cure and It really worked wonders for me.
I know a lot of people will disagree but get some Viagra or Cialis (get a higher dose and use half the pill) just use it the one time to overcome your anxiety. they are just training wheels dude you wont become addicted or anything.
The second time you want to fuck take a 1/4 of the pill.
and then the third time you feel comfortable enough to fuck her without the pill.

The thing is you (like me) don't have serious ED problems its all just in your head and the pills act as training wheels for you to overcome your anxiety kind of like when you started approaching girls. I used to drink alcohol to overcome approach anxiety and now I don't even buy a beer at the bar before approaching.

I spent months and a lot of time reading everything, this was the only solution that worked.

If you are uncomfortable going to your GP for Viagra or Cialis you can buy some herbal stuff that works too.
try Viapro, after 3 to 5 sessions you shouldn't need any pills.

Good luck man.