Hey peeps, complete PUA newb here but here's what I'm confused about.

In high school, so keep in mind everything here could play out to hormones. Two months ago I hit up an "ex" of a few years (whatever the hell that means at this age), and started texting and building up rapport eventually ending up in us meeting for lunch to catch up and hang out. Date went great, food was good, ended at her house playing guitar singing songs and laughing ect, limited kino, no kissing. Next weekend, second date, hangs out with a few friends of mine, we play some music, laugh, joke, smile and overall end the day with on a great note. The following weekend I was out of town so two weeks after the second I text her to see if she's up to see a movie. She says she's interested, but an hour later tells me she's booked the entire weekend and will have no time. "Ok", so we talk for a bit during the week, then I ask her to hang out the next weekend and she replies "sure". Again get a text a few hours later saying she remembered a project she needed to work on the entire weekend. Haven't talked since then and it's been 2 weeks.

Birthday/house party of a mutual friend is coming up this weekend, the whole high school drinking and dancing thing, including a jacuzzi. Am I missing something with this girl? Did I screw something up? Should I just ramp up the kino at this party or am I best off moving on? All replies appreciated.

She's gonna be at the party?

Show up with another girl. Ask someone to ride with you, if you have a female friend that will wing its ideal.

Game other girls at the party, don't pay much attention to target.

let her make the first move, and react.

She should come talk to you, don't avoid her, but dont go out of your way to talk to her.

Just have a good time man, remove yourself from the outcome.

If you can have a good time without the girl, then i promise you you will have a good time with that girl, or maybe another HB. and if you don't it wont matter, cause you enjoyed yourself.

Happy Sarging man. You're in highschool, don't give the girl any power over your life cause you can't get these days back.