Had a good first date yesterday, she's already interested in meeting up again.

We've been getting sexual over texts so hopefully this should lead to sex, although I know that it doesn't necessarily equate to sex.
This is the ideal plan: She comes up to Preston (I have better logistics and less money, lol), we get drinks in a nearby pub, then we go back to mine, make sweet love to each other and she stays the night.

I want to know if I've acted in a correct manner over text as well:


Her: Where would I stay though? x
Me: Stay at mine if you like x
Her: Yeah that's why I dunno, don't want to rush into anything... x
Me: We don't have to do anything, think of it as a place to stay for the night x


The idea was to suggest staying at mine like in a very casual, natural manner like it was second nature. That second text she sent me makes it obvious that she's not too comfortable with us having sex, so I thought I would try and reassure her (she can probably see right through it, but still)... then generate all the attraction and sexual tension whilst I'm on the date to make sure she's likely to come home with me.

What are you opinions on this?

Ninja

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Just a little update...

She replied "Hmmmm I'll think about it x" - I initially thought this was a rejection, but then she texted me back later saying "You doing anything tonight?" - just to change the subject.

This somehow lead from here to us getting sexual over text again. Kinda just happens on it's own with this girl; I know I can get away with doing this with her. In a way it gives you a false sense of security - like you think you're going to get the goods...

I'm thinking of not brining up the whole 'staying at mine' thing again until just before the date, either she's in or she's out. By then she will hopefully be turned on enough to go there

Is this appropriate?

Ninja

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