First, I want to greet all members of the Pick-up artist forum, because this is my first post here, but I think, that many will follow
I need your expert opinion to my situation. I think that I did many things right but I think that there could have been some major mistakes or dangers.
I studied the Mystery Method for some months now, so I know some important things, in theory. This was the first time, using that in field.
Startup:
Last saturday I went to a disco with my best friend. I knew, that his girlfriend and a good friend of hers were already there. I dressed up, and when we arrived, I noticed, that I already knew her. She is an HB 7 or 8.
I was quite attracted to her and decided to lead the situation to DHV and gain some attraction. I negged her, I was funny and a bit cocky, and I took care of my body language. We were dancing a lot and having fun, and so I initiated kino(touching waist, arm,...) everytime I talked to her.
She gave me some IOIs by repeatedly reinitiating the conversation. She didn't feel bad with the kino. I wondered that she seemed to be more interested talking to me than talking to her friend.
Bouncing:
I told her, that some other friend of mine are in another disco, which I remember of having excellent comfort building locations. She seemed to be quite interested. Because they often play Techno there, it would be a bad place to go there for my friend and his girlfriend. She told me, that she hasn't got any problems with Techno and smiled.
I interpreted this as an invitation and told her, that we could go there, but only with some other friends of mine(to disarm the situation) and that I have some appointment on next saturday, but can't remember what it was.
Moving:
I decided to move her to the ale-benches nearby to do some kino routines and asked her to chill with me there, because the music was getting worse anyway. She seemed to agree with that. I didn't want to take her promenade-style, so I went first. Half the way, I turned around, and she was standing nearby my friends, talking to them. There I stood, alone, in the middle of nowhere =)
I was a bit confused and thought, that a freeze out would be the right reaction at that time, so I went back to my friend and talked to him, making jokes and smiling. So far so good, but she didn't reinitiate the conversation.
#-close:
15 Minutes later, I decided to do something and told her, that I remember that the appointment ends in the evening and that if nothing is going to internvene, I would have time to take her there on saturday. She nodded and smiled. To compensate this DLV and because I didn't know her name, I gave her my cell to enter the number by herself in front of the others. She complained about the buttons of the phone and I negged her by answering, that she will be surely be capable of entering the number =)
She did so, and I got my #close. I wanted to put the cell into my pocket but she asked me to call her to get my number. I did that and she asked my how I spell my name. She didn't know it, and I knew that. I asked her, how she would pronounce my name and she just smiled. I spelled my name after smiling back.
Leaving:
There was bad music and they were slowly getting into a bad mood so they asked me when I would like to leave. I was the driver, so we left some minutes later. I brought them all to my friend, because her car was there. We said good-bye with a hug and that was it.
Infos:
You need to know something about her. She has a boyfriend, which is still out of the county for two months. She told me that she wants to decide whether to move in with him or not when he is back. This could be a huge problem.
My plan:
I planned to call her friday evening or saturday noon, take her to that club and intensify the kino to get the kiss close. I think that I dont' have enough comfort to proceed to the comfort-building stage instantly. And because I tend to overneg my targets, I need your opinion, how to proceed and where could be dangers.
Another option would be to take a good female friend of mine with me, which begged to escort me and use her as a kind of pivot. The problem is, that she gained much weight and is now less attractive as my target. She is completely into me and that could create some jealousy plotline.
Please help me!!