Need a bit of advice... And it's weird because I have kissed many girls before, I just don't know how I did it, or what it was that made it work!

I've had around 5/6 opportunities in the last three months where I should have closed. There has been a vibe yet I've somehow sabotaged the opportunity. Annoyingly too, these 5/6 opportunities have all been 9+ and potential wifeys!!! I'm usually gone once I don't find them interesting or have anything in common, so to get this far, I know exactly what I WANT to do, but I don't know the first thing about how to do it.

I'm not interested in reading books and watching hours of content to find the answer, I'm just interested in knowing how others go about the kiss close.

I think part of my problem is that being the male, I know that it is my responsibility to make the move, and I probably scare myself out of it by thinking about the worst scenario.


So any tips on kiss closing?


An irritating thing now that's happen with all those girls that I've had a opportunity with, is that they now are cold with me and its as if they think I'm an asshole/pussy because I showed so much interest and then took it all away by not closing. It's mad but I think I do more damage by not going for it than I do if I did try and got turned out!

stop being a pussy, get up in her face

and kiss

Writing that was all I needed - I know exactly what I need to do, just sometimes the best therapy is writing!