So last Tuesday I met this girl in the library. We had a good talk and I scored her number. I waited until friday to text her. I just texted her my name and whattup. No response. I kinda of just wrote it off as her just thinking it was a text to make sure that she had my number. Then I called her today. No pick up. I left a message asking if she wanted to hang out.

I am leaning towards that she is not interested. But could this be a shit test? How should I proceed?

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Here's where you fucked up.

You were outcome dependent for the number. Needy.

You didn't plan to meetup, before getting the number. Number should only be gotten after plans have been made, and you get the number for a logistics tool. I.E. "Hey lets meetup sometime next week." "Okay." "Put your number in my phone so I can hit you up."

You're needy as fuck.

You didn't text her immediately after you got her number, so she could save it in her phone.

You're needy as fuck.

You waited until Friday to text her your name... LMAO

You're needy as fuck.

You called and left a message.

You're needy as fuck.

You proceed by going out and getting more girls.

I don't mind being called needy if I am actually being needy. But WTF? You maybe be right about how I should have set a date to meet up and then got her number. But that doesn't really matter. I have gotten girls numbers and set dates afterwards.

She was getting a new phone the next day because her phone was broken. She said wait until tomorrow to text her. So I couldn't text her today.

Have you heard of the three day rule (I started counting Wednesday) It would have been needy to text her right off the bat.

You may be right with the voice message thing. I just left it to see what would happen.

You should focus on giving advice instead of the verbal abuse. There seems to one nugget in what you say however.

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some girls are interested, some girls are not interested, not really a big deal or any need for analysis

how she responds says a lot, reverse the rolls for yourself to rationalize this shit

if some girl approached you, you were interested in her, wanted to have sex with her, wanted to see her again, would you not answer her phone calls?, not text her back?

pretty straight forward, maybe she lost her phone, maybe she didn't see the message, who knows, worth a couple shots if you care enough, but really, it's not likely

just have to do better next time to actually make an impression so the girl wants to see you again, or carry the momentum sooner when you are fresh in her mind until she thinks of you as someone she ''knows''

Three day rule.... LMAO, oh god who comes up with this bullshit

I gave you an outline for getting numbers, only get it as a logistics tool. This reduces flakes by a huge percentage, and you don't have to waste your time like you did with this chick.

You're coming from a scarcity mindset, which means you're needy. If you weren't needy, you wouldn't have made this thread about ONE girl.