So could someone please tell me how to deal with or escalate the following situation...

had a girl hb5 (at least i can admit it), round mine and we kissing, grinding and rubbing on the outside of clothes (even 2 her panting really deeply, even moaning) and whenever i go to make a further move, she grabs my hand and pulls it away...

any suggestions how to over come this or in general how to escalate it?

If she moves away your hand and there really isn't any talking your way around it, you could pull the "Freeze Out." Basically, you just stop when she stops you, you go in the other room and hang out. You just totally switch off, and give her a few minutes. The idea is when she's sitting there alone she thinks to herself, this really isn't a big deal as I made it out to be. After a few good minutes of freeze out go back in and try again!

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u seem slightly reserved on that suggestion... is it not with out its failures?

Yes, sometimes it fails, sometimes it works. But it's the best thing to do, given that the only alternatives you have are to keep pushing or jerk off later wondering 'what if?'.

Try it a couple times, experiment. You clearly are not in here for that particular girl, so just try new stuff - if it doesn't work, it's no biggie, right?

I like to throw in something along the lines of

(while getting up) 'No, don't worry, I'm not angry or anything, but it just completely kills the mood for me when you stop me. It's not disappointment and I completely understand that you don't want to do this, but it pushes me away... it's weird, and I can't explain it. Want a cup of tea?'

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Love,

Ace