Hey, so this girl is kinda seeing this guy which is not working out (I think) and I've been out twice with her on dates already - well, we havent actually called them that as she wanted to avoid that term. I've kinda been holding back a bit and not flirting as much as I usually do as they weren't officially dates so I'm kinda in a strange zone.

We made out at the end of the last date and we are going to see each other again this weekend on a "date" (but not quite one), so need your advice on a couple of things.

1) Do I go for the kiss when I first meet her?
2) Usually on a 3rd date, I have her come round mine to get some takeaway and hang out and then obviously I bust some moves on her. I'm wary of doing my usual "lets do something at mine" date as I dont think shes fully comfortable for that yet. Advice? Thoughts?

I don't recommend going for the kiss close at the beginning. Do some kino first, establish some attraction and comfort, then go for the k-close.

Don't make the date "coming to your place". Make the date going to a movie or something, then when it lets out and its late you can invite her back to your place for a drink or to show her something cool. Don't invite her back with the overt intention of getting physical. Then, once you have her at your place you can escalate the seduction. Hopefully you already kissed her and everything so the physical stuff has been established at that point.

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Thanks for that. Any good tips for kino when walking? Most girls dont like holding hands right away so want to have some other method

That's easy. Walk close to them, like you are trying to lean in to hear them when they speak. But allow your arms to rub against each other. Don't make it seem intentional, but incidental. It works really well, because when you feel the heat of someone's body against yours, even on your forearms, it creates a physical connection.

Also, if you stay close to her, it's kind of like you are her bodyguard/protector. You can open doors for her, grab her if she slips or stumbles, and conveniently touch her for any given reason. Whenever we are walking and a have to step up on a sidewalk I put my hand on the small of her back like I'm helping her. Yea, I'm pretty sure she doesn't need help lifting her foot six inches to step on a sidewalk. But I gently touch her like I'm giving her support as she takes her step, just in case she might fall or something. It's a very nurturing and reassuring gesture that a woman's lover would do, so I act the part. This isn't just a bunch of BS either. I literally just used this move a couple days ago and I know it was working.

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Thanks dude! Will give that a try