Hi fellas,

New here, so brief intro... Mid 30s.... Out of game for years, never fully mastered. Just got out of long term relationship, which went straight into a rebound relatonship (using pua techniques)...didn't work out, so now that I'm single, been playing the field again.

Within the past several months, 18 phone numbers, 6 dates, 5 K closes, 3 F closes. I'd like to get the latter of that ratio up and why I'm here. Hopefully I have some tips to share as well.

I have a current situation I'm really stuck on and can't screw this one up! So here's the very short version..... My friends are totally shocked and jealous I've gotten this far (AFCs). Stunning server at local cafe, 20, HB10 (aspiring model) and all the guys drool over her. I made it a joke to my friends, she probably has 50 douchbags a day asking for her number. In my mind it was a challenge to pull this off. My mantra is not giving a fuck and it's taken a long time to build the self confidence to just go for it. Got her number, started text game that night, had her texting until early am, set plan for day 2. First date went really well, she was stunning, guys were eyeing her up and down, one dude came up to me and says in my ear "you are one lucky dude". Felt awesome being "that guy".

Really fun night, great convo, smart girl, had her laughing, tons of kino... she had to work an early shift and even tried to get someone to cover so she could hang out longer, couldn't, so I took her home. Passionate kissing on her doorstep, said she had a great time, if she catches up on rest we can do it again tomorrow, turned around one last time and gave a goodnight kiss before heading inside. I was elated... however a bit bummed, because if more aggressive, I probably could have f closed that night. However, she's a keeper and figured to let this one simmer.... Now I feel as if I'm screwing up and trying to avoid seeming too needy or overly interested. I texted after I left, said sleep well and sorry to keep you out late.

Anyway, Day 3.... No response, so around noon, I text a Hi, hope your day is going well. She texts back about an hour later and thanks me and hopes mine is going well too. Asked if she's getting rest, and she says, immediately. I make the needy mistake of saying, ok, rest up and text me later...... doh........ Did not hear back from her yesterday.

Day 4.... Instead of waiting a couple days, I text hello, mention how nice it is today and hope she's gotten rest. She does text back hours later with an enthusiastic Hi! Says she still hasn't caught up on rest, just got off work and meeting up with friends. Is that a neg to be like, I already got plans today? My intention was to get her out today/tonight. Anyway, I'm thinking about asking what she's doing later, she lives in my neighborhood and we talked about follow up dates the 1st time. One of which involved watching a movie at my place. So the question master seducers.... before I text a bunch of useless nonsense..... what sort of magnetic direction can I steer this into? I want this girl in my bed TONIGHT. haha

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