This girl i know, weve talked a few times on the phone for a few minutes each time, and well this time i called her to ask her if she wanted to come over with some people and take this swing dancing class. I know she was sick cause when she picked up the phone she sounded like hell, (unless shes amazing at faking) and she declined this time because she is sick but she said she really wants to and that I should call her next time we are doing it.

Should I legit wait till we are doing it agian and call her? or should I wait till she calls me. Phone game is one thing i struggle with...maybe this should be in sticking points. Ill just have another chick come over in place of her, but I kinda dig this chick.

Why dont you try this.

Text her and say,

"Hey babe, sorry for the short notice but do you want to hit that swing dance class tonight? If you do then hit me back, if not thats cool, iv got another girl from the class who has texted asking to be my partner. We dance well together but i remember you were interested,"

Something like that maybe?

Shows;
1) Higher value
2) No outcome dependency

and it gets over your phone game anxiety