Last night I was at a blacklight party. I opened this girl I see sitting by the bar. She wanted me to buy her a drink, but I'm under 21, so I couldn't. Stayed and talked to her a bit more and got her number. I bounced around for a while after, trying to game all these other girls. There was one really cute girl I MAY have had a shot with if I wasn't being cockblocked by her fat friend.

So anyway, at some point I bump into the first girl by the dance floor, which was so hot it blew the speakers out later in the night. I get her to come outside with me and make sure to be very heavy with kino- holding her shoulders, pulling her in to me, etc. We stand outside and talk for a bit, and then go back in. I tell her to come to the dance floor with me. She says she doesn't dance, but I pull her to me and guide her over. We didn't really dance- I had my arms around her lower back with her facing me and decide it's time to man up and go in for a makeout.

I used a line that worked once for me: "Are you a good kisser". She replies "Umm...I don't know". I say "Let's find out". Now, usually this is the point at which you kiss them. But she resisted, and said something about being "hard to get". So right away, I say something like "So I have to take you out first? Romantic date? Candles and violins?"...to which she agrees. I also set up a day for next week.

Nothing too special happened the rest of the night. I took her to a quiter area with seats and sat and talked to her for a bit, but I'll be honest: I felt more like she was just being agreeable rather than being really into me.

I think I implied that our super romantic date would involve me cooking her dinner at my place, which has the advantage of having my room right upstairs. But I also feel like she might flake on such a serious date. Should I scratch the whole idea and take her to coffee or something lighter first? And should I be calling or talking to her between now and then?

Go with your gut mate, if you think she wasnt in to you as much as you hoped then a light/easier date where you can DHV might be a good shout. However if she has agreed to the date at your gaff anyways then you could always neg her for being flakey if she pulls out.

You considered a little light texting to see if she is still keen, maybe asking if she has hatred of particular foods?